Outside of my professional life, I have known many couples over the years who had passion and electricity between them and who treated each other well. But unfortunately there is wide acceptance in our society of the unhealthy notion that passion and aggression are interwoven and that cruel verbal exchanges and bomblike explosions are the price you pay for a relationship that is exciting, deep, and sexy. Popular romantic movies and soap operas sometimes reinforce this image. Lundy Bancroft
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People who do not know what love is, think that passion and electricity are the same. They think that if they get these feelings in their relationship, they would be happy. However, true love never does harm to anyone. It never makes you feel like this @#$%^&*(!!). People who get frustrated and hurt by their partners will say that they were excited by their partner and that love is blind.

Source: Why Does He Do That?: Inside The Minds Of Angry And Controlling Men

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